Miss Vashti was my first teacher.
As soon as I turned six, the summer before I started first
grade, I was taken to her house for piano lessons. I felt
like a very “big girl” indeed.
Miss Vashti, her white hair piled
atop her head, opened the door of her Victorian mansion,
and ushered me into the inner sanctum. She motioned to me
to climb up on the piano bench and have a seat, and then
reached out and ran her bony knuckle down my spine so I
sat up straight and tall.
Every teacher I’ve had since
then that made an impression on me provided those two things:
the inner sanctum and the finger down the spine. And they
all got the best out of me.
They were able to excite me about
their subject matter because of the way they created their
environment and how they conducted themselves. To teach
someone to learn to love learning is the highest calling.
Now the inner sanctum and the bony
finger are both metaphoric. Neither actually occurred. Here’s
what I mean by those terms.
INNER SANCTUM
The classrooms of those special teachers
were different. We always settled down the minute the bell
rang, opened our books and got to work. They approached
their subject matter and us, the students, with reverence.
When I entered Miss Vashti’s
house, it was darkened and she spoke in hushed tones. She
didn’t tap my turned up nose like everyone else, or
talk to me like I was a little kid. She talked to me the
same way she talked to my grandmother. You bet I stood up
straight and tall!
Everything was in its place, orderly,
in a deep sense. It felt to me like it was a privilege to
be there.
The classrooms of teachers who impressed
me were not just clean, but cared about. Their bulletin
displays contained things about character and learning.
Though I couldn’t have verbalized it, I was more interested
in learning how to be, than in learning Geography.
My first piano lesson was to place
my finger on middle C (oh the mystery of it all!), and then
to read the first page in the music book. It was about practicing.
There was a picture of a little girl on a trail that ended
with “success” and there were pictures of the
pitfalls all along the route which were labeled, “the
bog of despair,” and “the forest of sloth.”
Lazy girls would never learn to play the piano! I did not
want to be a lazy girl.
Each lesson began by playing scales,
then the piece I was learning with correction. Then I was
to play the piece for Miss Vashti to “enjoy.”
Have you any idea how that made me feel? Miss Vashti sat
back with her eyes closed and her hands folded and I gave
her pleasure. I felt honored.
The classrooms of exceptional teachers
also had ritual, daily and weekly. It was easier to keep
quiet in Mrs. Wingler’s class on Monday when we knew
Tuesday was discussion day.
THE FINGER DOWN THE SPINE
The teachers had high standards which
they made clear and then modeled. “Turn around, sit
up straight, put your feet on the floor, look straight ahead,
no talking unless you’re called upon.” That’s
the finger down the spine. That’s how it’s done,
as you know if you follow FlyLady ( http://www.flylady.com
) – put on your lace-up shoes and shine your kitchen
sink.
Why does this work? Because if you
put on your lace-up shoes, you have run the finger down
your spine, and if you shine your kitchen sink, you have
taken action. You’ve done one thing and the rest is
then manageable. Cleaning a house is, after all, just shining
one sink, and then shining the next sink.
Mr. Pink, my high school English
teacher, read a long list to us: “Your papers must
be tidy. No ink smudges, no pencil smears, no wrinkles or
crumples. The only excuses I will accept for late papers
are …”
And how do your write an English
paper? Neatly, without crumpling your paper, with a nice
pen. There. Manageable and under control. Treat the PAPER
with respect. The finger down the spine. Put on those lace-up
shoes and suddenly the project isn’t totally overwhelming.
Beyond standards, the exceptional
teachers talked about character and what’s the right
thing to do. Dr. Duda, my high school Latin teacher, discovered
that kids had been making fun of one of the girls in the
class. Without the girl present, Dr. Duda spent 15 minutes
one class pacing the front of the room giving us a lecture
on how to treat people – with dignity and respect.
She was almost goose-stepping, emphasizing how displeased
she was. She also told us how to treat someone with respect.
It’s always so nice to instruct along with your criticism,
i.e., not this, but THIS.
Aware of the cruelty often imposed
on my fellow classmates, I suddenly felt safer. Here was
one teacher who had actually noticed and was not going to
allow it. Only when you feel safe, can you learn.
The best teachers addressed the emotional
side of things. Mr. Ramon, another Latin teacher, started
the second lesson with a contradictory grammar rule and
said, “You are thinking ‘My teacher has lied
to me.’ “ Yes, I was, and it was confusing.
Much about learning was confusing and it was so nice to
have someone verbalize it. Today he says “Do it this
way.” The next day, “No, do it this way.”
It’s the story of your life as a kid, and as a teen
as well. Mr. Ramon was assuring us that while the material
was not consistent, he was still in charge of the mess.
My junior year in high school, a
student had committed suicide. The tragic news made its
way quickly down the halls, in whispers but was ignored
by the teachers. When we got to Mr. Adams’ geometry
class, instead of taking his usual formal stance, he sat
on the edge of his desk and talked about what had happened.
Not a word was mentioned in any other class. Schools are
more adept at handling such things these days.
SUMMARY
The concept of the inner sanctum
means make your place of teaching a sacred place for learning
where students feel safe and where special things happen.
Do this by the care you put into the décor and fixtures
in the room, and also in the way you conduct yourself.
The finger down the spine is expectations
and high standards. We all do better when a lot is expected
of us. Not too much, but a lot. Things we have to stretch
a little bit to get to. We have such pride when we accomplish
something we perceived of as hard, and this is how we build
self-esteem.
Exceptional teachers have presence.
If you stand straight and tall, you’re running your
finger down your students’ spines as well. Standing
and delivering isn’t in the military for no reason,
after all.
If you're a teacher, you might as
well be an exceptional one. If you're a learner, seek exceptional
teachers. They will teach you more than how to conjugate
Latin verbs.